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- Avalon Karatau
- Apr 21
- 2 min read
âWhy do I always attract emotionally unavailable men?â
(That oneâs doing the rounds like itâs handing out free cocktails.)
đ«Â NOW LETâS BLOW THE LID OFF IT:

Alright ladies (and legends), pull up your cosmic knickers and letâs get realâbecause if you're stuck in the dating loop where your heartâs doing backflips and the other personâs doing the emotional limbo (âHow low can you go?â), then sugar, it ainât just them⊠it's what you're vibrationally subscribing to.
So here comes the Access-style grenade... đ€đ„
đŻÂ Be in the Question (Not the Drama):
Instead of spiralling into âWhatâs wrong with me?â or âWhy do men suck?â, try on these cheeky little consciousness crackers:
âšÂ What energy, space, consciousness and choice can I be to no longer be the landing pad for emotionally unavailable humans?
(And what if being "too available" energetically is your kink you didnât know you had?)
âšÂ What do I love about choosing people who canât actually choose me back?
(Yeah, I said it. Oops, did that poke the bear?)
âšÂ Who am I being when I ghost my own needs before they even do it to me?
(Boom. That oneâs got a spicy aftertaste.)
âšÂ If I werenât making myself wrong, what would I know about what I truly desire?
(And can that actually exist on this planet or do we gotta call in an intergalactic Tinder?)
âšÂ What if love isnât supposed to look like a Hollywood trauma-bond reunion tour?
(Just asking... for a friend.)
Hey Queen of Consciousness (or at least Queen of Getting There Eventually)...
If youâre ready to stop putting a lid on your intuition, and start popping the cork on actual energetic alignment in relationshipsâmaybe it's time for a new dating ritual.
How about we swap: đ âWhy donât they text back?â
for
đ âWhat awareness am I refusing to have that would set my sexy self free?â
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