đ Trust the Tingle: How Your Body Knows He's a Cheat Before Your Brain Does
- Avalon Karatau
- May 9
- 2 min read
You ever got a âyuckâ feeling and ignored it? That creeping, skin-crawling vibe when he walks in the room with his Colgate smile and cologne thicker than his loyalty? Yeah. That.
What if I told youâŠYou werenât crazy? You were just intuitive as hell.
Letâs break it down.
Youâre not overreacting. Youâre over-sensing. And your primal system â yep, that wild, ancient, animal part of you â is picking up something before the crime even hits your heart.
Your Nervous System is a Lie Detector, Not a Drama Queen

Iâve seen this over and over. Women in love⊠with men leaking betrayal through their pheromones. Yes, girl. We can smell infidelity. Not metaphorically. Literally.
Science is only just catching up, but we already knew. The way your skin tightens. The nervousness. The brain fog when he lies and flips it back on you:
âYouâre acting crazy.â âMaybe go see someone about your anxiety.â
Maybe we should. But that âsomeoneâ should be a bush psychologist who knows how to read the land, the body, and the energy field around a person.
And I am that someone.
The Tree Speaks First
Come walk with me. Literally. Into the bush. Into a clearing. Let a tree tell you what your bodyâs been trying to scream through tight chests, short breaths, and sleepless nights.
Iâve seen women break down in tears after placing their hand on bark. Because nature reflects truth. No filters. No emojis. Just pure, ancient mirroring. Touch a tree and youâll feel what the relationship buried. Touch a tree and it will touch back.
It doesnât matter if he hasnât âtechnicallyâ cheated. If youâre already feeling betrayed in your body, the contract's already been broken.
Signs You're Sensing Cheating Before the Act:
You feel low-level anxious around him without knowing why
His hugs feel performative, like a script
You feel âcrazyâ but canât find the receipts
He flips questions into attacks
Your libido drops, but not out of disinterest â out of survival
You dream of him with someone else (your soul snitching)
What We Do About It?
We donât just vent and move on. We gather.
I run a sacred, practical, and slightly feral workshop for women ready to stop gaslighting themselves and start listening to their wild, wise nervous systems.
No fluff. No crystals in awkward places. Just truth, tools, and trees.
Family Constellations meets Outback therapy. Think:
8 women under one gumtree
Rage released, shame burnt, stories reclaimed
Nervous systems recalibrated to truth over trauma
And when you walk awayâŠYou wonât need to check his phone. Youâll just know.
Youâll trust your inner fireman, your wolf pack, your gut whisperer.
And the dating world? Well, it has to evolve, when women like us stop making excuses and start building new blueprints.
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