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DAY 2 – INSTANT VALIDATION IS A TRAP, BABE

Updated: May 13

 

Dark Femme Dating Detox | Day 2 ✨So, you did the scroll. Maybe even the drive-by. You texted him. Yeah, I felt it. That little pang in your gut pretending it’s "just closure ."But sis, it's not closure—it's a hit. And just like that, you're back on that dopamine drip.

🧠 Instant validation is the sugar hit of heartbreak. It tastes good for five seconds... then it eats you alive.

So what would a regular dating psychologist say?“ Focus on self-care, journal, take a walk.”🙄 Yawn.



💅 What would I say? Rinse. Repeat. Snap the cycle like a glow stick at a bush rave.

🧹 Today we don’t fix the pain. We outdress it. Throw that energy into outer glow-up—it’s easy, it’s visible, and it tricks your brain into remembering: You’re dangerous when you’re healing.

🖤 Here’s your #Day2 Ritual:

  • Wear red. It’s war paint.

  • Don’t reply. Don’t stalk.

  • Move your body till your shadow screams.

  • Block. Delete. Burn the thread if you have to.

Let’s break your fantasy addiction and rebuild your backbone. You don’t chase. You attract. And honey, you're magnetic AF when you stop acting like a bargain.

Book a session if you need the dark arts. I don’t do normal. I do wild. I do healing in bush boots and fire rituals.👣 www.whoopwhoopwalkabout.com

 
 
 

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